Lunch With Others In Early Sobriety

 Went to lunch with Brittany and Jesse today at Crossroads Mall.  On the outside, they look reasonably good.  On the inside, they were struggling with isolation.

Brittany got a year of sobriety earlier this month although she has not worked the steps yet.  She got a sponsor that accepted her medical use of a prescription narcotic when agreeing to be her sponsor that promptly insisted that she stop taking her meds.  Brittany is blessed to be sober after that experience. 

Jesse was happy to invited to lunch with us.  He is a good looking guy struggling to accept himself as he is and have a hard time being okay with others accepting him as he is.

After lunch, we went across the street to Eastside Intergroup.  Lea introduced them to Nancy the office manager and gave them a tour of the office.  Nancy gave them both a Bill W plant (a cutting off a Swedish Ivy plant that was supposedly on Bill W’s bedside when he died).  It was the first time for both of them to go to the ESIG office.  They liked it.

My great friend and Sunday night walking buddy Leslee happened to drive up while we at the intergroup office.  We chatted for a bit.  She went inside to get a 28 year coin for Pete, hugged Lea and warmly greeted Brittany and Jesse. 

I thought Lea and I were introverted isolationists.  We sounded like social butterflys compared with the struggles they are having.  The benefits of working with other alcoholics was evident today for Lea and I.

I am grateful to be able to be of service to others, my old and new friends in recovery, my sobriety, being able to afford a car to drive and our lunch, and for the pleasure I am getting out of struggling to learn how to make copper and silver jewelry.

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